Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Marriage and Children......

Saw this accidentally in Youtube.. This man seems to have real guts....

6 comments:

Karthikeya Arasan SV said...

Intha Aaluthaan OSHO va....Kaathu Kodutu ketkurathu naala thaan intha madhiri Aalunga ellam pesa aarambichu taanunga..

Osho => Sari-aana vetti payan

Sarangan Rajamanickam said...

nnnaaaaa...

ivolo nallavana neenga....sollave illa....

as you got married,it seems you have become so nalla payan (or veetla unga blog comments-a monitor panraangalaa???)...

answer honestly..do you think what he says is wrong?????

Hannibal said...

just because he talks something we can relate to can we say what he talks is right ??

Sarangan Rajamanickam said...

Hannibal,

I am not telling what he says is 100% correct.....

But,one point is that Marriage is a lot of responsibility and one of the biggest thing we would lose in marriage is freedom.....minor details of freedom... we cover that up with words like "adjustment", "getting together", etc...but a fact is fact.... we lose the freedom....

Will u accept?

Siva said...

What do you mean by minor details of freedom ? I assume you are referring to things like travel, moving from one place to another etc. Is that right ?

Sarangan Rajamanickam said...

Yes... like
1. travel
2. moving from one place to other
3. spending free time
4. eating
5. drinks
6. sleeping and waking up time
7. dresses
8. cleaning
9. Even work related decisions like moving to a new city or moving to a new job...

and..... thatz all I could think of now.

But, big deal... no one really worries about losing these things. It is a standard way of life and everyone accepts it (including me) but the point is if a life could be possible without losing these things then it would be great...

Actually, that kind of life is actually in practice..what we call as 'living together'... a better alternative... am I wrong?